Chatty Cathy starts business blogging

October 7th, 2008

As Chatty Cathy spoke, Sally’s words echoed in my mind, “I think you need to experience my challenge first hand.”  Chatty Cathy spoke of her blogging vision with endless enthusiasm and energy.  I couldn’t help but wonder, how could someone say so many words without taking a breath?

As she took a breath, I said, “Cathy these are all great thoughts, but we need to back up to the beginning and slow down.  Let me read a little of what you’ve written.”  Sally slid over a group of papers stapled together; it could have been four or five pages.  “Great!  How many articles are here?”

Sally replied, “One.”

Cathy had obviously gone all out to prove she could write.   I began reading.

“All in all this article is very good.”  Cathy’s thoughts were clear and concise; she just had dozens of them!  I turned to Cathy and asked, “You titled this article ‘Catching Up’, but what is the goal of the article?”

“I wanted to bring the reader up to speed with where we are today.  I thought this way we could lay the foundation for building great conversations online and even a sense of a community where all of our readers can share their thoughts and learn from them and through these thoughts, I’m thinking, we might even be able to advance the design and development process, the…”

“That’s great Cathy.”  I interrupted.  “You have lots of energy and we will need that.  However you’ve nearly written a book and have scattered the subject matter.  I do believe we have several dozen great article topics here, but let’s back up a little further.  What do you see as the goal behind business blogging… in 20 words or less?”

Cathy sheepishly smiled and said, “I’ve been told that I have a tendency to talk too much.  I see the goal is to give our customers, current and future, a place where they can learn more about our company and find ways to solve technical issues.”

“Good,” I replied, “do you see value in this information for people who are not currently customers of your company?”

“Sure, these tips and technical conversations have lots of value for…”

I stopped Cathy before she was able to get a head of steam.  “Excellent!  How are your non-customers going to find the information if they don’t know to visit your website?”

Cathy thought for a moment.  I couldn’t help but wonder how many words a minute does she think?  I bet she could recite the Declaration of Independence in her head in 10 or 15 seconds.

Cathy spoke, “On the search engines.”

“Exactly, but what is the search people will use to find your article?”

Cathy thought again.  Sally was sitting with a pleasant look on her face, she doesn’t look the slightest bit rattled, I thought.

“I don’t know,” Cathy finally replied.

“When writing a business blog article, you should start at the search to pick a topic.  Google has a free tool you can use to see how many people are searching for any particular search phrase.  Pick five or six topics and condense them down to two or three keyword phrases.  Then use Google’s keyword tool to help you narrow your topic based on the number of people searching for that topic.”

“So if I wanted to write on gear stress or metallurgy break points I would see which one has the higher search volume?”

“Exactly; but that is only a third of the process.  Next we need to understand why a person might search for gear stress or metallurgy break points.  Are they surfing for fun or are they seeking knowledge?”

“How do we know?”  Cathy asked.

“Internet researchers in a 2003 Pew report concluded that over 70% of all internet users use the internet to find information.  Those same researchers say 50% of all internet users consider the web to be a source of entertainment.  Our goal is to give information while entertaining the reader.”

The look on Cathy’s face was that of absolute confusion.  She held back the obvious question…how?

“I see a puzzled look on your face and right now I bet you are thinking how do I do that?”

Cathy said, “You read minds too?  I mean, I am tasked with writing technical articles to help our customers trouble shoot problems with our machines; wouldn’t they feel I’m wasting their time if I tell them a fun story?”

“Yes they would, but telling stories is not the only way to entertain the reader.  Entertainment comes in all different forms.  For some, entertainment is a mystery novel while others like a well written reference guide.”  Cathy giggled.  “You seem like a techno-savvy person, have you ever picked one reference guide over another because you liked the writing style?”

“Yes.”  Replied Cathy.

“Then you already have a reference point for entertaining via an informational article.  A reference guide has dozens of different topics, maybe hundreds.  Your blog article will have only one.  Your blog site then becomes the reference guide that users, and search engines, can search for information they need.”

“Ok.  I understand the difference.  I do buy a lot of reference guides and I have my favorite authors because I like they way they present information, although I never considered it a form of entertainment.”

Sally said, “Actually Cathy, remember last week you and I were reviewing the new operators specs for the Chomp2000 Shredder?  You said the people who wrote the manual probably never had fun because their writing was super boring.”

Cathy replied, “Now that you mention it, there are a lot of technical manuals that are super boring, but there are others that are fun to read.  Why is that?”

“When reading a boring manual, do you feel the writer is talking at you with no emotional drive?”  I asked.

“Yes.  I never thought of it that way, but boring manuals don’t seem to have any human delivery, they just feel like words on the page.”

“There are only so many ways to write ‘turn the red dial counterclockwise until the digital readout reads 12″, but you are not writing the manual.  You are writing the online technical support or reference manual.  When trouble shooting why the red dial might not turn, you describe the solution several different ways finding the one that reads the best.  The way you write will be captured and presented to the internet searcher.  If the list of search results includes one that sounds interesting because it is more human, the likelihood the searcher will click on the link is greatly increased.”

Cathy said, “I guess this will take some practice.”

“Yes.  Ok, we are two-thirds of the way there.  The last part is really the easiest part.  So far we’ve researched the internet to find the popular search phrases because we want to write about things people are searching for.  Then we made sure to structure our articles to be interesting.  Next we need to narrow our focus and strategically place our keywords.”

“Because blogs don’t have the extra page description and keywords meta data that a typical website has, we need to make sure and clearly communicate the topic for our article.  The search engines will score your article based on the contents relevancy to the implied topic.  If you are writing about gear stress you shouldn’t include a section about oil viscosity.  If oil viscosity is important, then you can write a separate article highlighting the important factors.  Keeping your articles focused on a single topic is very important because every time you add a topic point, the search engines must evaluate the value of the content of your article with two or more topics against articles that are single topic focused.”

“Lets recap.”

1.  Write about topics people are searching.
2.  Write to entertain as well as inform the reader.
3.  Write on single topics.

Ed Bejarana
BusinessBlogging.net
a division of Zenith Exhibits, Inc.

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Putoff Pete Starts Blogging

September 26th, 2008

I met Putoff Pete after my business blogging presentation at a local chamber of commerce event, he asking if we could meet for coffee to discuss his company’s blogging needs.  After consulting our calendars we agreed on 10am Thursday at The Big Buzz Coffee House, which was just down the street from Pete’s office.

In preparation for our meeting, I  looked up Pete’s company website.  I found that he worked for a telecommunications company in downtown Portland.  Their web site was well built, but it had a few too many keywords and the site organization could have been a little cleaner.  I noted that Pete’s company had a blog site, but there hadn’t been any new articles in several weeks and the articles online were unfocused sales pitches.

I arrived at The Big Buzz Coffee Shop about ten minutes early, ordered a medium Coco Sugar Buzz and secured a table that would be comfortable for our meeting.  The coffee was good, but the music was a bit too loud, the wall decorations were on the wild side and most everything in the room was distracting.

Pete arrived ten minutes past the hour with a binder in one hand, loose papers nearly falling out and a legal note pad with a couple dozen pages turned, exposing just a few blank sheets for taking notes.  Pete entered the coffee shop quickly but did not appear to be in a rush.  He was dressed in casual business attire and appeared to be hip to the local fashion trends.

Pete spoke first.”Sorry I’m late. I got held up at the office with some last minute paper work and lost track of time.”

“No problem”, I replied.  “I’m glad you could take some time to meet with me today.”  I offered to buy Pete a cup of coffee while he got settled.  While standing in line I couldn’t help but notice Pete seemed comfortable in this very busy, noisy environment.  I ordered Pete a medium Coco Sugar Buzz.  While waiting for the coffee I began to wonder if I should have ordered Pete a decaf.  I returned to the table to find Pete had a stack of printouts organized loosely in his now open binder and his legal note pad ready for taking notes; but no pen.

Pete told me he had recently been promoted to Manager of Electronic Communications and one of his duties was to use the company’s blog site to increase search engine visibility.  Peta said, “I’ve blogged before, but never for business.  I don’t really know how to get started.  It seems like the articles my predecessor wrote had little to no impact and your chamber presentation opened my eyes to the possibility.”

We talked a bit about Pete’s job history and his back ground in writing and social networking.  Armed with a better understanding of Pete’s motivations, back ground and company resources I felt we were ready to proceed to the next phase–organizing our first article.

I asked Pete, “Who are your ideal prospects you would like to attract?”

Pete thought for a moment and replied, “I don’t think we want to limit ourselves to doing business with any one type of individual. We would like to do business with anyone and everyone.”

“Of course, the goal is definitely to attract people of all sorts to your website, but I like to start with the low hanging fruit.  Writing for your ideal customer will help you learn how to business blog.  The process of blogging is just that; a process with a beginning, middle and an end.  We will create many articles over time and the entire collection of articles will represent something of interest for all your company’s target audience.  But individually each article should be focused on just one product or service for just one type of customer.”

“Oh, I get it.  I should start by writing about things I’m very comfortable with for people I know really well.  Then I can write new articles about different topics and different target audiences and by having all of those articles together on one blog site my eitre site can reference everyone.”

“Excellent,” I replied.  “You have some homework to do.  First you’ll need to do some keyword research.  You can use Google’s Keyword Tool to help you find popular search phrases for one of your products or services.  Make note of all the top keyword searches because those phrases are related to one another in Google’s database.  We’ll use a combination of these keywords when we write.”

Pete was taking notes so I paused to give him a moment to catch up.  He then asked, “Does it matter which product or service I start with?”

“Yes.  You should start with your most popular product or service.  Using Google’s Keyword Tool you’ll get an idea of how people are searching for associated keyword phrases.  These keywords will become your categories and opening sentence statements.”

“Next, make a list of ideal customers.  What type of businesses do they run?  How many employees do they have?  Where are their businesses located: downtown or the outskirts?  Are they experienced business people or first time business owners?  Pick one type of customer and start writing.”

“When writing there are two main things to keep in mind.  First, don’t make a sales presentation.  Your ideal customers are not browsing the net for new phone systems; they are browsing the net for entertainment or answers to questions.  Second, keep your articles single topic focused.  Don’t try to solve all the world’s problems in one sitting.  Your articles will be located in the same place and readers can browse or search through all your articles if they wish.”

“Once you get your first draft written, eMail it to me and I’ll give you my feedback.”

“This sounds kind of laborious?”  Pete replied.

“There are several steps and at first they do take time; but no marketing plan is easy out of the gate.  They all take some time to internalize and become comfortable.  Once you understand the process you’ll be able to write articles in about an hour.”

Pete asked, “Is there anything else I should know?”

“Well, since you’ve asked, yes.  I suggest you seek a comfortable, quiets work environment to write.  Noisy environments slow down the writing process and negativity affects the writer’s vision.  What you write should be a snap-shot of your mind’s eye, telling a tale of one aspect of your business.”

Ed Bejarana

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Pictures for our Yellowstone Vacation 2008

September 24th, 2008

Here is a collection of photos from the Yellowstone Vacation Kay and I took with Tim and Trina.

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Simple Sally starts her Business Blog

September 19th, 2008

Simple Sally wanted to start her own business blog but was very concerned with the process being too difficult.  While Sally is an engineer and fully capable of mastering complex tasks, she believes creative writing is an art that only the most talented can master.  I helped Sally see the possibility of  blogging to help her formulate new ideas, promote her and her business and keep her current clients up to date with her business and personal activities.

Two days after our initial blog instruction meeting Sally called.  “I’ve got a problem and need to meet with you today for about 20 minutes.”

Simple Sally and I met for coffee at the MoonBuck’s Coffee house.  When struggling with a new concept, sitting peacefully and enjoying a double chocolate mocha with a butter croissant helps put everything back into perspective.

When I arrived at MoonBuck’s, Sally was at a table, but she looked out of sorts.  Sally  designs gears for large industrial shredders.  She usually dresses in blue-jean casual but today wore white heels and a sundress.

I greeted Sally and she jumped right into her troubles.  “You said I could write blog articles.  You said it would be easy.  This blogging thing is ANYTHING but simple.”

I knew Simple Sally liked to keep things neat and straightforward so I documented things  such that it was easier to blog correctly.

“Let’s start at the beginning and figure out a way to fix things.  Why don’t you make a list of five things I’ve told you about business blogging while I go buy us a couple of mochas?”

Coffee shops have always been my favorite meeting place for developing new ideas.  The environment is usually calm and the aroma helps stimulate creative thinking.

While standing in line waiting to order, I pondered Sally’s dilemma.  So far she had not given me very much to work with.  I needed to dig down to the root cause issue that was preventing her from being able to write her blog article.

“What can I get for you?” asked the young girl behind the counter.

“Two double tall chocolate problem solvers please.”

The girl giggled.

After paying for the drinks I turned and headed to the table.   Sally was sitting there with a blank sheet of paper and a puzzled stare into space.

“Here is your double tall problem solver.  How are we doing with the list?”

“About as good as I am writing my first article.”  With those words Sally turned the blank sheet of paper towards me and pushed it across the table.

“You really look nice today Sally, are you meeting clients later?”

“No, I have the day off and my boyfriend and I are going out later for dinner and a show.  I had some extra time while he was working in the yard and decided to write my article before I got into the office tomorrow.”

With that announcement I took a cautious swing of my chocolate mocha.  “Sally, the problem isn’t the process, the problem is timing.  You are trying to do business on your day off.  Name one business thing you do well while preparing for a date with your boyfriend.  You are in time-off mode but you are tying to perform an important business development task.  Writing a business blog article is about building relationships with strangers.  You can not possibly be successful if you only give the process part of your heart.”

I turned the blank sheet of paper back towards Sally.  “Why don’t you write that one at the top?”  Sally picked up her pencil and began to write.

“How do you feel now?  Do you think you can go back to your office tomorrow and get writing?

Simple Sally smiled and said, “Sure.”

Names and jobs of the characters in this story have been changed so that I can be silly!  The blogging principles contained with-in this article are designed to help you use blogging to reach new clients and grow your business.  If you would like to learn more about BusinessBlogging.net and Zenith Exhibits, Inc. Please give us a call (503) 709-1454 or visit one of our websites.

Ed Bejarana
Zenith Exhibits, Inc. &
BusinessBlogging.net

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Keeping up with the family

September 3rd, 2008

I remember twenty years ago it seems the world moved slower.  Is it our Starbuck’s induce caffeine high that is got us all wound up and running everywhere we go or is it me turning 40 this year?  It seems like the whole world around me is running towards the entrance to the shopping mall of life, all chanting “open, open, open” like that woman on the old Mervyn’s commercials.

Last week I was helping a customer who was exhibiting at the Dew action Sports Tour, and being the BMX enthusiast, I took in a few of the events.  First off, it seems the tour is a BIG hit among 11 and 12 year old boys and girls.  Just mention the name of Ryan Sheckler and the girls in your vicinity scream like Ryan was one of the band members of the Beetles.

At the Dew event, every one was running from one place to another, hardly taking any time to talk with the exhibitors or even each other.  Heck, when Cameron did his 360 Back flip, I called my wife to talk about it, I patted the back of the strangers sitting next to me.  Excitement was in the air and I had to talk to witnesses as if to try and experience it again through there eyes.  Of course, my wife’s response was the normal response, “that’s nice.”

I wrote about leaving room for the big stuff.  The sands of life will fill in every nook and cranny if you let it, so you’ve got to put those big, important things in place before the space (and time) is eaten by the big hairy life monster.

In the spirit of “adding the big stuff first”, last Wednesday I told my wife, while she was in the haze of morning, “we are going to the movies today.”

She asked, “don’t you have work to do today?”

“Yes, but I want to spend time with you”, I responded.

The movie was silly, Tropic Thunder, but the moments together during the middle of a work day were priceless.  Take that Visa!

We all have VERY busy schedules.  The kids are starting back to school, the economy is doing strange things and making consumers a bit uneasy.  Our political system seems to be taking over the television networks and everyone in the country is worried their political believes might offend someone. These are times when it is easy to put off planning something memorable.  It is safer to NOT go to the coast this weekend because the kids are starting school.  Wrong!  It is never safer to withdraw from being with your family, alone, on a mini vacation.

The hardest part of getting away is planning.  Men, we really suck at sitting down and planning with our wives.  Knowing this is more than half the battle.  Take time, sit you wife down (maybe to a nice dinner out) and say, “I want to go camping.”  Be prepared for objections and don’t settle on “not now.”  Set a date, even if it is a month or two out, setting a date for taking a mini vacation gets the family time juices flowing and before long everyone will be focused more on the trip and less on the daily stresses of life.

Ed Bejarana

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Little Fish, big fun!

August 26th, 2008

It has been over 29 years since I’ve held a fishing rod with line in the water. My dad smiled down on me yesterday, but I wish he would have been there.

My dad loved to fish, me I like the idea of actually catching something. While I know my dad liked to catch fish, I believe he was just as content to sit on the shore and watch the line bob in the water. I was a hyperactive kid and couldn’t sit still, so fishing with my dad was like having cavities filled without anything to dull the pain. I stopped going fishing with my dad when I was about 11.

I came close to going fishing with my best friend Joe Hammers about ten years ago, but Joe died from a heart attack at the age of 52.

All in all, my fishing buddies don’t seem to fair too well. I hope its’ not me?

Yesterday I went fishing with Ken Bear Cole, a friend of mine from the East Portland Chamber of Commerce. While I shared the story with Ken and the other customers on Ken’s boat about me and my dad fishing, I didn’t share my raw emotions on the subject. Since I am a glutton for public scrutiny, I write these words for you with the hopes that you will gain a life lesson from me.

Fishing is a guy thing, but I know women like it too, I’m not trying to be sexist. Not sure what it is about fishing and guys, but total strangers can come together on a boat and put a fishing pole on our hands and we become instant friends. It might be the fishing stories, it might be the peaceful scenery, or it might be the idea of man versus nature. Long gone are the days where men had to catch or kill something to feed the family, but the instinct still lives within each of us and yesterday natural instinct showed up after being suppressed for 29+ years.

Ken did most all of the work, all I did was show up, dry off a seat and hold a pole. Ken prepared the pole, baited the hook and reminded me how to hold the darn thing. Then Ken steered the boat and catered to our frequent fishing catching needs. There were five of us, counting bear, in the boat yesterday and before we knew it we had 29 fish in the live wells. Four of them just had to be put back to keep our 5 fish limit. This isn’t counting the number of fish we hauled up to the boat but who were able to cough up the hook. I even hooked one in the fin, but he had to be set free because the catch wasn’t fair.

The morning started with a slight drizzle and an eerie mist on the North Form Lake in the foot hills of Mt Hood Oregon. Bear backed his boat down the boat launch and I chatted with a couple other guys who were going fishing with us.

Ken promised us we would go home with some fish and told about the trip he had on Sunday. We were curious if Bear had made arrangements with Fred Meyers just in case the fishing gods were against us? We even joked that maybe he had the “Bear” special at the local fish market.

Chuck was Tim’s father-in-law, Tim was taking Chuck on a special fishing trip. Ken came highly recommended through a friend of a friend. Dan has been a long time guest on Bear’s boat. Dan is leaving for Utah where he will continue his battle against lung cancer.

Tim was the first to hook a beautiful 12″ rainbow trout, followed by Chuck. For a little while it seemed like the back of the boat (where Tim and chuck were sitting) was a better fishing spot, but it didn’t take to long before my line started to bob. Several hard nibbles and failed attempts to set the hook and I had to re bait (ok, Ken had to re bait my hook).

It isn’t that I was squeamish around night crawlers, it was that my fingernails wasn’t long enough to break the worm in to little parts. Ken had perfect nails for the task and he seemed to take great pleasure in snapping the worm body and jamming a hook through the critter. Not a very good deal for the worm!

Ken had a challenge. He said that it was custom for the first guy to catch a fish to kiss it. In exchange for living up to this tradition, Ken promised to eat a worm. The video below is proof the Ken will go above and beyond the call of sanity!

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It didn’t take too long before my hook started to set and I was reeling in dinner! Fortunately I wasn’t first, because while I like sushi, kissing a life fish wasn’t my idea of fun! No sooner did I get my line back in the water and BANG, another fish. A few minutes later, BANG, another fish. Poor Dan was starting to feel left out. Tim, Chuck and I had already pulled ten fish into the boat and he hadn’t caught anything yet. Then, of course, almost as if on cue, BANG. Dan started reeling in a BIG one! The pole with 6 lbs test was stretched to the limit, but with bear hanging over edge with net in hand, Dan was able to negotiate the biggest catch of the day into the boat. Dan caught an entire rod and reel. No fish, but Dan left with a new fishing pole.

Dan pulled a few more interesting things out of the water before there was a fish on his hook. Once Dan got going with fish, he too was pulling them in left and right.

Poor Ken was working up quite a sweat keeping up with us four catching fish, but with the exception of a few misses in the net, Bear was picture perfect.

Chuck won the award for the funny catch of the day, here he is showing off his prize hook!

We all got a great laugh from this catch and was curious if we left it on the line if it could become bait for an even larger fish? Instead, with hook out of mouth, the little guy was thrown back into the water to go tell his tale to his friends. Can you image the story?

“I was just swimmin’ along having some lunch when I felt this strange pulling sensation. I was being drawn towards the light and when I got there god held me up and said “it is not your time.”

Thank you Bear for a great day! If any of you are looking for a good time, Call Bear or visit FishingWithBear.com.

Ed Bejarana

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Finding balance in life

August 21st, 2008

I turned 40 this past March and I love life.  I own my own business, I design and sell trade show displays and help people with their websites, I have a loving wife who is supportive of most everything I do, and I’m playing music at my church.  I also read a couple books a week, visit with lots of friends at the East Portland Chamber of Commerce and spend quality time with my dogs…but this story is about finding my balance, not a list of achievements.

Several of my friends are complaining about there age is showing in the aches and pains each morning. I too have body aches, but I start each morning with a dip in the hot tub.

While my day usually starts with a mental inventory of ALL the things I MUST do before close of business, I always fight through the urge to immediately sit down at the computer.  Instead I take time each morning to tend to my dogs (Java and Bari).  I feed them, give them water, take them outside for their morning constitution and then I brush them each for a couple minutes.  Then we just stare at one another and greet our days (I do most all the talking).

Next I make myself a cup of coffee…ok I lied, I make the coffee first then tend to the dogs.  But my focus is on the dogs!

After my doggie cuddle time I turn on the computer and head for the shower to prepare for my morning dip in the hot tub.

The boys follow me outside and if it isn’t raining too hard, they get more pets while dad soaks away the morning stresses.  If it is raining, dad doesn’t stay in the tub too long!

My wife usually stays in bed for several more hours, so I get a good deal of quite time right away in the morning.  With dogs in tow, coffee in hand and a list of tasks I prepared the night before, I sit down at my computer and get started.

OK, so why am I sharing this drudgery with you?  What POSSIBLE purpose can it serve?  This is my life lesson I learned back in college.

In a communications class I took my Freshman year we had a guest speaker who was going to tell us about time management.  I was an older student, having spent three years in the Army, so I was one of the few that didn’t roll his eyes at this news.

The time management expert was dressed business casual smart with a button up shirt and lose fitting slacks.  He carried with him a box that measured about 12″ long by 8″ deep by 8″ wide.  He sat it on the counter and slowly, but with purpose, sorted his things.  The professor just observed from the side of the room with his arms crossed.

The man pulled out an empty jar.  It was about 3″ in diameter and maybe 6 or 7″ tall.  It looks like one of my moms BIG pruning jars she had filled with cherries!  She had dozens of those jars.  I hate canned cherries to this day.

The casual man spoke.  Holding up the jar, he said here is life.  He swung the jar from side to side (slowly) as if he were a magician showing his audience that there was no rabbit in the hat.  Duh!  It’s clear, we see that it is empty.

“Here is where you are in your life.”  He proceeded to add a few small rocks and pebbles.

“Each day of your life you will add contents to your jar”, he said.  While talking he added some bigger rocks and pebbles.  “You have big things and you have little things”.  He continued with the demo and before long the jar was full of rocks.

He held up the jar to the class and said, “are we done?  Is our life full?”  Most of the class nodded.  Then he pulled out another jar that had pea size pebbles and proceeded to pour them into the jar.

“Full yet?”

A few light bulbs seems to have lit in the minds of some in the room.  I was still searching for the moral of the story.  Many heads nodded.  The glass did look full now.

The man produced another jar, this time with sand.  He poured the sand into the jar and filled in all the tiny spaces.  The room breathed together.

“Full?  Keep in mind, this is your life.  At this point can you die knowing that you have completed all those items on your life check list?”

Most of the room, including me, shock our heads yes.  My mind wandered a little, why wasn’t anyone, including myself, answering verbally?

The man pulled out yet another bottle, this time with water.  He proceeded to completely fill the jar.  It now had rocks and pebbles and sand and water.  There was NO WAY he could cram anything else into that jar.

He paused, set the jar on the counter and looked around the room.  My light bulb must have been brighter at that moment, because he fix his stare on me and the rest of the room noticed.  I remember thinking, this is like walking into church late.

The man asked, “full?”

“yes”, I replied.

“What’s the moral of this demonstration?”

I thought for a moment, in part because I was nervous that every was looking at me.  I was 22 and a few years old than the rest of the students, but dam!

I said, “leave room for the big stuff.”

The man smiled.  The professor smiled.  Some girl on the other side of the class shouted, “what did he say?”

The man replied, “leave room for the big stuff.”

The man left his box and jar collection and walked out of the room.  We all watched with horror!  What just happened?

The rest of the class isn’t important, except to say that the whole event was staged by the professor who after the dramatic departure said, “that happens everytime.  What I don’t understand is how he knows who to ask.”

We often fill our days with the little things and let them control our life.  We know in the back of our minds that the big things are looming and must have our attention, but we are consumed by errands, chores, business tasks, and other “important” life distractions.  The bigs things are family and friends, hobbies and personal interests, and our health.

Always start your day with the big rocks, the sand and water of life will fill-in the gaps as needed.

Ed Bejarana

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